Life can change immensely over the course of a year.
On this day last year I found out I had cancer. I was in shock. I felt hopeless. I was terrified of the future. I couldn’t imagine how I would get through the next hour, let alone a day or a week. It was one of the worst days of my life.
On this day, I am cancer free. I feel full of hope. Full of gratitude. I try to embrace each hour. Each day. Each week. Every day I am here is a great day. Ok, let’s not be crazy. I have bad days. But I appreciate that a bad day is still a life-filled day.
It is officially time to put this whole cancer thing in the past. It’s time to move forward. For now, I’m going to stop this blog. It’s become a place of focusing on the negative aspects of my recovery, and I need to focus on the positive. I need to focus on living. Should I need it, I know where to come. It will always be here for me. I will leave it online as a place of information for those just starting their journey. But I don’t need it anymore. I may occasionally write a “still cancer free!” post after my regular check-ups, but that will be the extent of it.
I also find it appropriate to end it at a time of year when it’s tradition to share gratitude and thanks. My cup overflows with gratitude to each of you who have been with me through this journey. You will never know the strength you gave me. You are the reason I got through this. You are the reason people say I’m strong. Thank you for laughing at my dark humor, and for knowing when I needed a note or an E-mail or cookies.
“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.” ~Melody Beattie